Hi, my name is Dr. Claire Nicogossian, I am a mom of four, clinical psychologist and author of Mama, You Are Enough: How to Create Calm, Joy, and Confidence Within the Chaos of Motherhood. I was inspired to write this book for many reasons both professionally and personally. In my work, I support moms, just like you, that feel overwhelmed, stressed and preoccupied with guilt and worry that they’re somehow failing their families. Instead of labeling these tough emotions — anger, sadness, anxiety and worry — as negative, I frame these emotions as “shadow emotions.”
And the reason is this: when we label an emotion as negative, we begin to judge ourselves, censor our feelings, push down or ignore what we are experiencing. We lose the essence of understanding ourselves and what we are experiencing, judging instead of being curious about what we are experiencing, what we may need to pay attention to, and what part of ourselves is in need of nurturance and compassion. Labeling these emotions as shadow emotions, creates a curiosity and openness to understand what we are experiencing and how to respond.
As a mama, I have felt many challenging emotions and was in desperate need of a resource to help me manage my emotions in motherhood. And when I went to look for that resource, it wasn’t there. I created and wrote Mama, You Are Enough, to be the resource not only for myself, but to share with the mamas I support, and the mamas out there I know could use some support but I may never be able to meet.
By taking this quiz, you will learn what your strengths are with managing stress, labeling your emotions, and the coping skills you use. You will also receive feedback about the areas in your mental and emotional health that need a little nurturing, care, and compassion.
As a reminder from me to you, please answer the following questions openly and honestly in order to receive customized suggestions that will help you identify your emotions, assess your coping skills, and improve your well-being. To dive deeper into emotional health and well-being, pre-order my upcoming book-filled with everything you need to create calm, joy and confidence in motherhood.
*This quiz is not a medical or mental health assessment, nor can be a substitute for medical and mental health assessment. If you have concerns about your mental and physical health, please reach out to your health care provider for evaluation and support.