Do you have a friend or family member that brings more angst and less and less joy to your life these days but you can’t figure out why?
Have other people noticed how you’ve changed (for the worse) when you’re around this person? 
If you believe you are in a toxic relationship, this quiz is for you. 
INSTRUCTIONS: Take this 10-question quiz with ONE particular friend or family member in mind. While you may have not faced some of these situations, try to imagine how your person would respond, based on past experience. 
After you’re done, we’ll let you know which one of the seven toxic relationships you have, and help you discover a pathway toward relational health. 
NOTE: If a scenario does not match how your friend or family member would respond, please select the "none of the above" option. 


1. Everything’s fine in your relationship as long as you agree with their opinions or do what they want. But the moment you disagree or push back, this happens:

2. Healthy friends say this about your friend or family member:
3. When you leave this person’s presence, you feel:
4. Your friend is caught in a lie. They reply:
5. You and this person have differing political or theological views. After a disagreement, you feel:
6. If your friend posted this on Facebook, you would not be surprised:
7. You win an award, and it’s plastered all over social media. Your friend responds this way:
8. Your friend or family member has done something really awful, and you need to confront them about it. So, with trepidation, you do. Their response is:
9. You’re moving across town, so you ask this person for help. They respond:
10. You break down crying because of a difficult situation at work. This person:
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